if love can fade, then so can pain

 

We lose our love. Our loved ones. Our soulmates. Our safety. Our Luck.
It hurts.
It hurts so much that we never think we’ll be happy again.

The pain robs us of our motivation, our smile, our good mood.
It robs us of our belief in ever being happy with a human again.

And these feelings are okay so. These feelings show us how strong love is.
Take your time. Take as much time as you need.

But time will pass. And you will feel better soon. I promise.

Because it’s never too late to learn how to be happy again. Its never.

Don’t forget that.

 

MM

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Love leaves you broken

First you float over all clouds,
you lose yourself in love,
make it your life elixir,
make it your needs,
your life content…

Until she lets you down. The love.
Until she leaves you all alone. Broken.

Now is the time to mend the broken holes until you can let love pass.

It will pay off because you will float again soon.

 

MM

Broken – the daily Post

do not compare you to others

we all compare us to others. 

That’s a fact. We all know it. We all make it. We take it that way, right? It is something everyone makes. So do we.

But can you tell me why? Why are we doing such an unnecessary comparison?

Our parents told us since we are little, don’t compare you to others. You are special. You are you, and not them. And that’s good the way it is.

We all heard and  and actually we know it, that it is wrong to compare us to others. And we do it anyway.

Because everyone makes it. Even the television, social media and advertisement makes it everyday. They show us exactly how we are not. As we supposedly want to be.

But maybe when we are really honest to ourselves. Maybe thats not how we want to be. That’s the way they want us to be. Maybe we could be happy the way we are right now. Maybe we are already happy right now? Maybe we do not admit that?

Maybe we have the perfect figure, the perfect lifestyle, the perfect carrier, the perfect relationship, car, hobby, garden, talent, soul or mindset.

Maybe it’s surprisingly easy to be happy with who we are. As we look or live our lives.

Maybe we just have to be happy.

Maybe it’s just that easy.

MM

Juxtapose – the daily post

live without ceremony

to live without ceremony – to live free – live impetuous – live wild – live unconditionally – live without many thoughts.
It sounds so easy. 
But to be honest. It is one of the hardest things in life. It is hard to stay always positiv and work on your positiv mindset. Sometimes it works. Sometimes not.
Even when it sounds so easy, we failure. Again and again.
Because life seems to be easy. But people are not.

People hurt us. People leave us. People are mean, demanding and ruthless. People expect so much from us.
And we try and try to give them what they want. We work so hard to archive that they are nice to us…

And thats the moment our live can’t be easy anymore.

We are living not only for us. We are living for them.

Why are we spending so much time to work for other people. To fit in the society.
We are spending – if we have a great day – not more then two hours per day to make the things we truly want, and not the things people are expecting us to do.

When we are listening to ourselves and listening what we are truly want to do with our lives, thats the moment we have a chance to make our lives easy again.
Because listening to ourselves and loving ourselves and plan the day we personally want, is easy.

Only when we recognize it that we make our lives hard or easy as we want, we can change it. No other makes our life hard. We make it.

So take a few minutes daily and think about what you can make easier in your life. Because it’s your life. Only you have the power to change your life. So do me a favor – and make it. For You.

 

MM

 

the daily Post – Ceremony

the famous breakup pain

I’m feeling so alone. Left behind. I’m feeling endless empty.
And these feelings haunt me the whole day. While I’m eating, working, chilling or going out with friends… You are always there. Always in my mind.
But never truly here.

You are happy there where you are. Happy without me. Happy with other people whom you give your love. The same love you once gave me. How do you make that? Is that even possible? How can you be so happy, when I’m so unhappy without you.
That’s unfair.

The moon split in half and the stars crumbled, falling like fireworks into the sea.
I watched my world fall apart the day my love left me.

 

MM

Famous – The daily post 

dont feel guilty for loving the wrong people

whats wrong with me? why can I love so unconditionally? why do I always give more love then I get? why do I always fall in love so fast? It’s just embarrassing to open my mind, my heart and my soul to one person, who then leave me. Embarrassment.

whats wrong with me?…

To be honest. Nothing! Love is the deepest interpersonal affection. Not everyone has this gift to love unconditionally and is able to feel as deep as you do. It’s a gift to let people in your heart. To let them see your soul. To let them open your mind. A lot of people can’t do that and will never have these beautiful feelings for one person than you have. What a shame!

So why should you feel guilty for having such deep feelings? Because it breaks your heart? Because you don’t become that feelings back? Because you feel alone and embarrassed? And tired? Tired for putting so much effort in relationships to become the same unconditional love back?

“I’m not feeling guilty for giving my love to the wrong people – they probably needed it the most.” 

Exactly. They needed it the most. They don’t have that gift. They never can feel deep. You should be proud of yourself for giving people the opportunity to feel the same way you do. Proud to make them a part of your beautiful soul. Proud to be such an good example how fast and deep we can fall in love. How easy love can be.

They were the wrong people. For sure. Because you didn’t get the love back then you deserve. But don’t stop to love! Please. Because now you know that you are capable to love deeply. And we both know that there are many people out there that are loving the same way you do. And that both of you deserve it to be loved that much.

And you will find each other.

Because love connects.

 

MM

 

Guilty – the daily post

am I right in assuming that…

… you have a bad day? You are moody? Feeling unmotivated, stressed and annoyed?

you feel that you have a thunder storm cloud above your head?! You know what?

Its okay to think so. Its okay to admit that it is not your day or even your week. It is okay to feel unmotivated, stressed and moody. These feelings make you human.
BUT
“our lives are only as good as our mindsets” 

So stop to feeling bad. And change your thinking!

Always remember:

GIVE UP THE CONTROL. Nobody has influences on situations, events or processes. Let them roll. You can’t change them anyway. So relaxe yourself and let the things happen. You will have more energy left if you let everything take over the time.

DO NOT CARE WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU. When you are moody – be it as long as you need it. Not as long as others say you need it. When you want to change your bad mood – do it. But if you need a couple more hours till that point. Fine. Take your chocolate with you to the sofa and give your mindset the sugar it needs.

YOU ARE ONLY A HUMAN. You are moody, you make bad decisions, you can’t think positiv 24/7. The biggest achievement is to admit that you are in a bad mood and want to change that. That makes a better human out of you.

THINK IN THE PRESENT. Forget yesterday. The day before or the upcoming stressful days. Forget it. Its easy. Live here. Live now. Say yourself you can worry another time. When this time is coming. Say yourself again: Lets worry another time. You will see. Its working!

Its okay to be in a bad mood. But don’t forget to love yourself even when you are not in your best constitution. Because there is no reason not to do that. Because you are all what you need. YOU.

 

MM

 

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Daily Post – Assumption